Moving on.. I know a few people who enjoys dating guys and girls.. but the thing is ryte.. their relationships do not last for a very long time.. its like super short that would actually keep you wondering, was there any sorta feelings between them to begin with. In most cases, it would seem that people get together because they are afraid of being alone.. but it does not seem it matter to them whether the partner they choose is the right one.. they wanna keep changing for the satisfaction of it.. and PEOPLE in general.. these days.. take relationships as candy in shops.. you buy them.. eat them.. and throw the wrappers away.. in most cases, crushed. I mean cmon man! Why do people like to toy with other peoples heart? Love is support to be a sacred thing for god’s sake! I personally believe that love is something very special.. and you cannot share it with every damn person you come across on the street. You gotta connect.. you gotta click.. you gotta feel it deep in your heart and that’s when you can be sure that you have found the one! Ok.. some people have said that I feel that with their spouse and after some time the feeling fades away.. Hello People! There is no such thing as FADDING AWAY!
However, I do agree that in most cases, two people who have been together for a long period of time, might feel that their love for each other is not as strong as it once were when they first started dating.. Well.. its just a feeling.. and yea, it can also be proven by the high divorce rates these days.. ! If you ask me, I would say these couples who ended up like this were never in love in the first place.. They could have been.. but the love to begin with was just not strong enough to connect them together.. They irrational thoughts and haste forced them to get together fast and end it equally fast.. Lol.. such a waste of time and energy don’t you think? I believe that if you love a person truly… deeply and madly, just that love is enough to keep you guys together. Seriously, nothing else matters! Even when you have arguments and you fight, you will alwyx remember the love that you guys have.. all the happy moments and memories together… the romantic things that you have shared and the love that ties you together. You will remember it enough to not get into anything stupid or do anything irrational that would jeopardize your relationship. Its my strong believe and it is one of the things that I hold on to very strongly… Seriously!
So when people come and tell me stuff.. like why their relationship didn’t work.. and the problems certain couple are facing.. I will be like “omg! Cmon! Wake up! The problem begins with you.. and there you have it”…. Its true.. if you love someone enough, you would work your ass off to be with that person. The other person would do the same too..! Give it all you have before you give up, right? This movie says something similar.. Like the married couples get worn out with their same daily routine that they feel there is no sparks among them anyone.. However they are willing to try to change certain things and give surprises to add a little more sparks.. fortunately something big happens and well, they get to go on an adventure and learn alittle more about love and their true feelings for each other. They become romantic and so very much in love once again! Isnt the way that is ought to be for everyone else too? Work your part and let the miracle play its role too!
In the end the lead male character would say “I would do this again all over, honey and I would choose you every time!” That is what I mean by true love.. renewing the sparks.. Do all it takes to keep your loved once.. I would say the same thing to my other half too.. “I would choose you and only you darling every single time!”… we all should say it.. and follow it.. or at least try! Its not that difficult… Love is pure.. and let us keep it that way.. J
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