I would choose you every time…

 This piece is based on the movie “date night”… be warned its NOT a movie review.. just some personal thoughts based on certain characteristics that the movie portrays.. wait is that a movie review? Oh well.. whatever.. anyway, for those who has not yet seen this movie, GO WATCH.. or if you don’t want too.. ah.. you don’t have to. Lol.. screw it! Just read this and I guess you should be able to understand what I am trying to say.. easy enough ryte?

Moving on.. I know a few people who enjoys dating guys and girls.. but the thing is ryte.. their relationships do not last for a very long time.. its like super short that would actually keep you wondering, was there any sorta feelings between them to begin with. In most cases, it would seem that people get together because they are afraid of being alone.. but it does not seem it matter to them whether the partner they choose is the right one.. they wanna keep changing for the satisfaction of it.. and PEOPLE in general.. these days.. take relationships as candy in shops.. you buy them.. eat them.. and throw the wrappers away.. in most cases, crushed. I mean cmon man! Why do people like to toy with other peoples heart? Love is support to be a sacred thing for god’s sake! I personally believe that love is something very special.. and you cannot share it with every damn person you come across on the street. You gotta connect.. you gotta click.. you gotta feel it deep in your heart and that’s when you can be sure that you have found the one! Ok.. some people have said that I feel that with their spouse and after some time the feeling fades away.. Hello People! There is no such thing as FADDING AWAY!

However, I do agree that in most cases, two people who have been together for a long period of time, might feel that their love for each other is not as strong as it once were when they first started dating.. Well.. its just a feeling.. and yea, it can also be proven by the high divorce rates these days.. ! If you ask me, I would say these couples who ended up like this were never in love in the first place.. They could have been.. but the love to begin with was just not strong enough to connect them together.. They irrational thoughts and haste forced them to get together fast and end it equally fast.. Lol.. such a waste of time and energy don’t you think? I believe that if you love a person truly… deeply and madly, just that love is enough to keep you guys together. Seriously, nothing else matters! Even when you have arguments and you fight, you will alwyx remember the love that you guys have.. all the happy moments and memories together… the romantic things that you have shared and the love that ties you together. You will remember it enough to not get into anything stupid or do anything irrational that would jeopardize your relationship. Its my strong believe and it is one of the things that I hold on to very strongly… Seriously!

So when people come and tell me stuff.. like why their relationship didn’t work.. and the problems certain couple are facing.. I will be like “omg! Cmon! Wake up! The problem begins with you.. and there you have it”…. Its true.. if you love someone enough, you would work your ass off to be with that person. The other person would do the same too..! Give it all you have before you give up, right? This movie says something similar.. Like the married couples get worn out with their same daily routine that they feel there is no sparks among them anyone.. However they are willing to try to change certain things and give surprises to add a little more sparks.. fortunately something big happens and well, they get to go on an adventure and learn alittle more about love and their true feelings for each other. They become romantic and so very much in love once again! Isnt the way that is ought to be for everyone else too? Work your part and let the miracle play its role too!

In the end the lead male character would say “I would do this again all over,  honey and I would choose you every time!” That is what I mean by true love.. renewing the sparks.. Do all it takes to keep your loved once.. I would say the same thing to my other half too.. “I would choose you and only you darling every  single time!”… we all should say it.. and follow it.. or at least try! Its not that difficult… Love is pure.. and let us keep it that way.. J

2011 March- My bufday!

It finally arrives.. encore of the day i was born! woot!! It was a great celebration! Lets go bak to the eve of my birthday, which is on the 4th of March (Friday).. as it happens, both my lecturer cancelled class on Friday because they have to attend the leadership camp.. in my heart, it was lyk "YAHOO!!!!!" That was before i remembered wat my psych group members hv decided to that day.. haiyh.. i sighed after... just like that! Yea, well who wouldn't be ryte.. my amazing group members had decided to go to the KL library because they felt dat the help library wasnt good enooff.. pooh! I guess they were ryte in a way.. oh well.. they wanted to get our assignment done on Friday. Thus, we were to go to the KL public library together via public transport. After reaching the kl library, my amazing group members felt that there were not enoff books and they couldnt work with it.. thus, they decided to get to the NAtiOnaL liBraRy.. ugh!.. So we travelled once more, and waited for a long time to get the correct bus, and finally by some miracle, we reached the national library! phew! We all went to different corners to find books.. and time passed so fast, it practically flewwwww!!! After that, we discussed and made a decision on which is our working tittle...lol.. after dividing our work, the awesome group members of mine decided to go bak home as it was getting late (only 4pm at that time)... in the end, we went so far just to divide our work, which could hv been done in the COLLEGE LIBRARY! uahhhhh!!!! we did not get any work done! anyway... i got bak home by 6 in the evening..

When i reached home, my dearest friend had cooked dinner for me ( as it is i was starvingggg).. so we ate! My roomate (Cyan) suddenly said "hey.. here is the thing.. i have to kidnap you today. But i dont know where to kidnap you too.. so i have written some places down and you hv to pick 1 piece of paper n see which place is it".. I was taken a back.. lol.. and of course i smelled something fishy too.. i mean duh! tmr is my bufday and i suspected something was gonna happen.. (my heart my thumping fast.. lol) .. i picked the first paper and it said "pick again".. so i picked again and it said "get more sweets". Then my roommate gave me two cadbury blueberry sweets and asked me to pick again which i did and it said "KL Sentral". Then my roommate said "ok so i have to kidnap you to KL Sentral. What time shall we go? Can we go after you freshen up alittle?" lol.. it was pretty hilarious because the kidnapper was being super considerate of the kidnapee.. HAHAHAHA! The even more funny part was the kidnapee paid for the kidnapers bus fare .. lol..! We reached KL Sentral savely. My roommate asked me to take her to a place that i would very much like to eat.. well i didnt want her to spend much cuz i knew she would pay as a treat for my bufday ( or that was wat i thought at least...) so i said why dont we go to secret recipe? Lol.. she said "hmm do you feel lyk ice cream?" and i said yea, mcDs ice cream!!! =) and so we went to McDonalds and i had a Sunday-cone Chop Top while she had a sunday cone. Aisyah (who followed us) didnt want anything. My rommie said this would be a good time to bond and catch up with each other's life cause we hv never really hung outside together. I truly believed her!!!!

 "green tea cheese cake, raspberry cheese, choc mud pie, dark white choc.."

Suddenly, someone called her and she started talking Cantonese (cuz i understand mandarine). But i kinda knew wat she was talking bout.. she was giving directions on how to get to us. I became suspicious again.. so i asked her.. lol.. she  gave me a great cover up story though (which at that time i bought it).. she said that it was her guy friend she was meeting up later and he called to ask where was she and should he come pick her up (apparently she told him not to come pick her up).. And then, the phone rang the second time, and she gave the direction to get to us again.. SUPER FISHYYY!!! she said that he decided to just come and fetch her because i asked her again out of curiosity.. ALL OF A SUDDEN my two OTHER HOUSEMATES appeared next to me!!!! THAT I TOTALLY DID NOT EXPECT.. lol! They came there straight from college.. gosh! sweet right.. !!! I was so absolutely touched.. and even more touched by wat the did.. and their thoughts.. it was seriously OH MY GOD... touched...! My tho other housemate (Mey and Sherry) had bought four different pieces of secret recipe cake (four flavours)... dark white choc, green tea cheese cake, choc mud cake and raspberry cheese... We went   to the secret recipe shop after that.  My rommie gave the cake to the people working there and asked them to put candles, light it up and bring it to me.. and they did WHILE SINGING "happy birthday to you....".. haha! it was nice.. and it was embarrassing.. but it was absolutely touching even thought the people there were all looking at ME.. hehe! =)


I made a wish and blew the cake. After that i fed everyone some cake.. Lol.. its something i do for every bufday (learned behavior from parents).. and i did the same. I guess my they were not used to it and Mey was embarrassed when i did that.. But oh well.. i just thought it was a significant thing to do you know.. treat others to your bufday =).. hehehe! I personally enjoyed the choc mud pie cake.. i loved them all tho, but you know people have their personal ratings ryte... and mine was Choc mud pie, then dark white chocolate followed by green tea cheese cake and lastly raspberry cheese cake. hehe! Later, Cyan had to go to  bangsar cuz she was meeting up with her another friend.. lol she has a date and she was willing to sacrifice some of that time to surprise me for my bufday.. sweet ryte? OMG.. i knowww!!! *tears*.. Moreover, both Mey and Sherry came directly from college and they were super tired and hungry.. yet such great effort was made.. OMG!! ahh!! i feel super touched. .and absolutely happy!!! hehe! By the way, this was the very first birthday that i spent away from home and away from my parents.. It's like a significant thing is my life because it shows that i have grown up.. Lol.. it's just significant to me and not anyone else of course.. ~self contentment~ Anyway, after Cyan left, the four of us ate dinner there while we talked.. hehe! We took the public transport home and reached the house at about 10pm. It was one of the BEST Bufday celebration EVERRR!!! Thank you dearest roommate and house mates AND my best friend of course for making my 19th birthday simple, yet sweet and memorable.. I absolutely love it!

(From the top left) Sherry , Mey , (Bottom right) Me and Cyan

We are seriously like one family.. Living with them.. woa.. it's really awesome! We can go on talking and talking and totally loose track of time and we are able to communicate with each other very well indeed.. or that is how i feel anyways! =) I guess, the more we talk, the more i realize we have quite a number on common things.. hehe.. The house for one, college for two and the fact that we are all gaLs make it three already! haha.. We get along very well and i hope it will remain this way for ever!! hehe.. unlike my Ex-roommate THE PIG or my other house mate THE COW, these guys are just amazing! Love them all and i must say " YOU GUYZ RAWK"...

(to be continued..)